Learned from Dad
Wednesday, July 23, 2008, 2.02am
The past few days, I was'nt in a good mood.
On Sunday, July 20, I and him had a real big quarrel. My parents knew about it and they were worried. I know that too. But, that's not the main focus of this post.
It's been 2 days, when my mom decided to asked me: "That day, what happened to you and him, quarrel?"
I said: "Don't be Ka Po lah!"
Mom replied: "Why what happened? Tell me lah."
She's my mom, I think she have the rights to know, so I gave in and said to her everthing.
Soon... one spread to another.. and now, my dad knew everything.
*Sorry, to keep the info about what is the issue, I shall'nt say much.
But, what I want to is, when my dad knew about it, he comforted me with these words.
Dad's encouraging words: "Girl, sometimes, you must not see things as if it is very big and serious rather, you should try to see it at a smaller picture. I am not saying you're at fault, or he, but try to compromise each other's character.
*Key points: When words are smaller, problems become smaller, but when you hover a magnifying glass over and the words become bigger, people tend to see the faults of it.
Everyone, needs to depend on each other and no one is alone. When people need help, don't just think they are taking advantage of you rather, take it as they need your favour even if you are at a loss. Maybe you might need their help too.
However, when things arise, do talk nicely and solve the problem together."
I felt very touch after hearing him. It is not that I don't understand this logic but I guess it's rather I have forget at the point of moment. When things don't get right and my mind is confuse.
The past few days, I was'nt in a good mood.
On Sunday, July 20, I and him had a real big quarrel. My parents knew about it and they were worried. I know that too. But, that's not the main focus of this post.
It's been 2 days, when my mom decided to asked me: "That day, what happened to you and him, quarrel?"
I said: "Don't be Ka Po lah!"
Mom replied: "Why what happened? Tell me lah."
She's my mom, I think she have the rights to know, so I gave in and said to her everthing.
Soon... one spread to another.. and now, my dad knew everything.
*Sorry, to keep the info about what is the issue, I shall'nt say much.
But, what I want to is, when my dad knew about it, he comforted me with these words.
Dad's encouraging words: "Girl, sometimes, you must not see things as if it is very big and serious rather, you should try to see it at a smaller picture. I am not saying you're at fault, or he, but try to compromise each other's character.
*Key points: When words are smaller, problems become smaller, but when you hover a magnifying glass over and the words become bigger, people tend to see the faults of it.
Everyone, needs to depend on each other and no one is alone. When people need help, don't just think they are taking advantage of you rather, take it as they need your favour even if you are at a loss. Maybe you might need their help too.
However, when things arise, do talk nicely and solve the problem together."
I felt very touch after hearing him. It is not that I don't understand this logic but I guess it's rather I have forget at the point of moment. When things don't get right and my mind is confuse.
